When You Decide

For the past few months I have been on a beautiful and self-guided journey. It has been a swirling ethereal experience of love, patience, trust and hope. This has been the culmination of years of dedication and inner work. And it feels amazing to see what is possible when you truly believe in yourself.

I keep myself rather honest when it comes to my emotions. I think this is because the weight of hiding my emotions is far too much to bear. Throughout this journey is listening to my inner world, I have become more skilled at understanding myself and my needs. I find it easier to define the wide-array of emotions that come up throughout the day. In turn, I navigate moments more authentically to me and begin to allow my walls to fall down.

This past year has reminded me of what it means to come home to yourself. The world outside of us is constantly telling us what we should think, feel and strive for. That has been the majority of my stressors for my adult life thus far. I absorbed every single thing that society has forced upon me from a mental perspective. And as time went on, I fell farther and farther down the rabbit hole of disillusion. But this year was my year of climbing out of that hole, and standing on my own two feet. The foundation being made of humility, joy, confidence and compassion.

I found that once I understood the intent of the life I dreamed of, it was within my grasp. I have dedicated many hours, days and weeks to cultivating a healthier mindset. It hasn’t been the easiest road to walk down, but it has been the most fulfilling. Remember that this road becomes easier when you allow the help of others. Lean on your loved ones, ask for advice and be honest about what you’re feeling. This is how I broadened my horizons and gathered a diverse perspective on what I value the most.

“Lean on your loved ones, ask for advice and be honest about what you’re feeling.”

So this year I hope you find the time to devote to your life path and purpose. Remember, this is the one chance that we are given at life, so let’s make it count. YOU are in the one in charge of your life, wear that badge of honor proudly.

Love & Light,

Valerie